Preparing to Call a Family Dance

October 7th, 2022
contra, kids
A week from Sunday I'm going to be calling a family dance. This is like a contra dance, but with dances that are a good fit for all ages, including very little kids. I haven't called one before, though I've danced at several over the years back to when I was little. Here's what I'm currently thinking of doing:

La Bastringue

Big circle, partnered, keep your partner, doesn't need a walkthrough

A1 (8) Into the middle
(8) Again
A2 (8) Circle left
(8) Circle right
B1 (16) Partner swing (or dosido and swing)
B2 (16) Promenade

When I call this for adults I make it a mixer by having you swing the next person, but for little kids who are often dancing with their parents you don't want to split them up.

This has its own music, though it's not critical:

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Sasha

Scatter mixer

In pairs you point at each other saying "Sasha! Sasha! Ras, dva, tri!" Then you (twice) clap right hands, left hands, both hands, and hands on (your own) knees. Around by the right elbow singing "la (x9), hey!", then again with the left. Then you wander around and find someone new to dance with. The timing is:

A (8) Sasha! Sasha! Ras, dva, tri!
B1 (8) Right x3, Left x3, Both x3, Knees x3
B2 (8) Right x3, Left x3, Both x3, Knees x3
C1 (8) Right elbow round
C2 (8) Left elbow round
D (16) Wander

If little kids want to stick with their parents a couple can participate in this dance as if they're one person.

It has its own music:


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Favors the Rose ("the Fan Dance")

Two lines, temporary partnering


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Dancers form two lines. One person out at the top holding a fan or something else. They consider the two top people, give the object to one, and dance down the middle with the other.

Unphrased, works with any music.

I've never danced this one, but reading trad-dance-caller it seems to be a favorite. I'm mildly nervous about doing it when it's totally new to me, but it does seem pretty simple.

Galopede

Two lines, partnered, keep your partner

A1 (8) Long lines
(8) Cross over
A2 (8) Long lines
(8) Cross over
B (16) Partner swing (or dosido and swing)
C (16) Top couple sashays down to the bottom, everyone else moves up. Dancers at the sides clap: 1-2-3.

Even though it's square and 32-bar it has its own music:

The music is worth doing because of how well the C part fits.

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I'm probably not going to do this one, but would instead do two other dances, one with an identical A part and one with an identical B part.

Bridge of Athelone (var)

Two lines, partnered, keep your partner
A1 (8) Long lines
(8) Cross over
A2 (8) Long lines
(8) Cross over
B1 (16) Peel the banana: top couple casts to bottom, their line follows
B2 (16) Top couple makes an arch at the bottom, everyone else goes up through the arch.

If the lines are too long or short and you get off the music it's not that bad.

This dance normally has a C part with arches, but I think this would be too complicated for the crowd I'm expecting.

Low-backed Car

Two lines, partnered, keep your partner
A1 (16) Top person in left line leads their line around the right line and back to place
A2 (16) Same with right line
B1 (16) Partner swing
B2 (16) Top couple sashays down to the bottom, everyone else moves up. Dancers at the sides clap: 1-2-3.

Probably use the Galopede music, if not dancing Galopede?

Other ideas?

The dance is an hour, so I probably need at least two more dances. Are there other family dances people have especially enjoyed?
Referenced in: Calling my First Family Dance

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Aloysius (via fb):link

Do you have any play party dances

Ben (via fb):link

I was at a wedding that did the Favor the Rose dance. It's nice because it doesn't have to stay with the music at all, it's inherently gender neutral, and people can get creative. At one point, someone gave the fan to the next person in line and danced with both people at the top of the lines.

Carol (via fb):link

My copies are still packed for the move or I'd be suggesting specifics, but these are great to have if you'll be doing this with any frequency

Jean (via fb):link

Heel and toe polka? Remember playing it for Sue Rosen at a family dance in a museum barn, people seemed to enjoy it.

Josh (via fb):link

We came to one of these once, and the kids weren't super into it, and I don't have a ton of concrete suggestions, but one vague suggestion is that I recall being somewhat disappointed that most of the dances weren't very contra-like, and I was personally hoping for something that would be more like "contra but super easy".

Tony (via fb):link

Josh What Jeff has outlined so far looks very contra-like to me: all but two dances use NE basics and are phrased to the music. Was the program you attended different?

Martha (via fb):link

Josh I felt the same way, the dances were more like international folk dancing or English country dancing that I've done in different groups. But when you want to include children who want to stay with their parents and parents who might never h…

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Josh (via fb):link

Tony Yeah, the dances were more like "top couple leads down to the bottom of the hall down the middle, then back up to the top, then dance through various people's raised arms to the bottom", or circle dances that didn't include any contra figures.

Josh (via fb):link

Martha Yeah, we only went that once, so I shouldn't generalize too much. :^ )

Josh (via fb):link

Oh, also! I'm lazy and didn't read through all of Jeff's post, but indeed, it looked at a glance like his suggestions did a nice job of including contra elements.

Lisa (via fb):link

Anything Goes Marian Rose circle - no mixer *FAMILY*…

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Lisa (via fb):link

Sweets of May variation (to the tune) whole set, 6 couples or so, identify 1s on the left, 2s on the right, across from P 1&2. 2s stay put, 1s follow the leader around the 2s 3&4. All the 2s face me, and skip around the 1s 5. right hand turn PARTNER 6. left hand turn PARTNER 7. clap clap clap, stamp stamp stamp ("3 slow claps") 8. 1s sashay to the bottom

Michael (via fb):link

If you wanted to add a simple, silly, Polka, The Baby Polka might fit in. Those who don’t know how to Polka can just sashay around the room during the polka section.

Tony (via fb):link

Congrats and good luck! Family dances are so important... that's where we start growing the next generation of dancers. Don't forget the "forward and back" at the start of Galopede and Bridge of Athlone.

Jeff Kaufman (via fb):link

Tony Sorry, yes, "long lines" is just short for "long lines forward and back" for less writing. I'll need to teach and call with the longer phrase, though if I partially drop out I might cue with "long lines"? Not sure how much dropping out I'…

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Penelope (via fb):link

Jeff Kaufman typically none (dropping out) (down here)

Penelope (via fb):link

I love Nils Fredland's hello goodbye, and a simplified chase the rabbit chase the squirrel, but we have 2 hours for our family dance and I always call a square first that is just each couple visit/honor the ring.

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